The Art of Emotional Regulation

The Art of Emotional Regulation

So often, we regulate by reaching outward—calling a friend, scrolling social media, numbing through food or distraction. These may soothe for a moment, but they don’t create lasting change. True self-regulation comes from within. Learning to pause, notice your automatic thoughts, and calm your nervous system is the foundation of emotional intelligence—and the pathway to a softer, more resilient life.

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The Moment We Stop Abandoning Ourselves

The Moment We Stop Abandoning Ourselves

We spend so much of our lives waiting to be chosen—by jobs, partners, friends, and even strangers online. From the time we’re young, we’re taught to shape ourselves for approval, to be agreeable, and to fit the mold others set for us. But in doing so, we slowly lose touch with who we really are. Choosing yourself is not selfish—it’s essential. Here’s why it’s time we stop chasing validation and start living from self-respect.

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It’s Not About Willpower: The Truth About Weight, Food, and Healing

It’s Not About Willpower: The Truth About Weight, Food, and Healing

We’ve been taught that weight struggles come down to willpower — but the truth runs deeper. For many of us, food becomes more than fuel; it becomes safety, comfort, even survival. This isn’t about discipline or restriction — real healing starts with self-acceptance, understanding your patterns, and gently coming back home to yourself.

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The Beauty of Slow Living: 5 Principles for a Happier Life
Slow Living, Mindset & CBT, Wellness, Healing, Lifestyle Nellya Schumpert Slow Living, Mindset & CBT, Wellness, Healing, Lifestyle Nellya Schumpert

The Beauty of Slow Living: 5 Principles for a Happier Life

I believe that healing begins when we slow down. In this post, I’m sharing the five core principles that transformed my life — from embracing the joy of missing out to creating nourishing rituals that bring peace, clarity, and connection into everyday moments. If you’ve been craving more softness in a world that moves too fast, this is for you.

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The Mental Struggle No One Talks About With PCOS
Mental Health, PCOS, Hormones, Self-Esteem Nellya Schumpert Mental Health, PCOS, Hormones, Self-Esteem Nellya Schumpert

The Mental Struggle No One Talks About With PCOS

PCOS is more than a hormonal diagnosis — it’s an emotional battle too. In this post, I share the mental health struggles that often come with PCOS: the self-doubt, the frustration, and the isolation. But I also share how I began healing — through mindset shifts, daily rituals, and the belief that I was never broken to begin with. If you're navigating PCOS and feeling overwhelmed, you’re not alone.

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