The Moment We Stop Abandoning Ourselves

We spend so much of our lives waiting to be chosen—by jobs, partners, friends, and even strangers online. From the time we’re young, we’re taught to shape ourselves for approval, to be agreeable, and to fit the mold others set for us. But in doing so, we slowly lose touch with who we really are. Choosing yourself is not selfish—it’s essential. Here’s why it’s time we stop chasing validation and start living from self-respect.